Are you ready to wear a human hair topper?
by Rebecca Dawe
There is still such a huge psychological stigma about wearing human hair toppers. The technology is so much more advanced now and the knowledge I’m sharing with you will ensure that you will be equipped to make the right purchasing decisions.
But, however amazing the hair looks on you, this is a huge emotional step and if you don’t feel ready, nothing that you wear will feel right. Everyone is different; some are desperate to cover their hair loss and are ready to embrace whatever fab solution is out there. Others are so consumed with the stories they have told themselves; that somehow it’s bad to wear hair, that they just can’t move forwards. If you've tried a few hair toppers in different shapes and sizes (as it can take a while to find the right thing for you) and you still feel very unhappy you probably are not ready. You may never be ready and there's nothing wrong with that!
I’ve met so many wonderful people who admit they feel guilty for not accepting their hair loss. That they should think “it’s only hair loss” and that they should just deal with it. They think they should be grateful for all the things they already have in life, that somehow, they are superficial or vein.
Well, I’m here to tell you that acceptance isn’t just something that you should automatically feel. In my experience, acceptance is something that you have to work at. If you want to feel confident again, there are a series of steps you’ll need to take.
After years of struggling, ignoring the situation and hiding it from everyone, I came to a crisis point where I couldn’t continue as I was anymore. For me, it started with finding the right hair toppers and wigs. I was then able to start building my self esteem again. For you, it might be make up, getting fit or learning a new skill that kickstarts your journey back to your true self.
Wanting to make the most of your appearance is not vanity. Vanity is an ugly word used to describe an over admiration of yourself. It is not vain for wanting to be slim, wear make up, highlight your hair or shave your legs. The point is, you need to give yourself permission to do whatever makes you feel better about yourself.
I don’t want you to waste 20yrs feeling as I did. I would love to play a part in your story in helping you to feeling like you, perhaps a better, new version of yourself. Trust me it really is possible but you need to find the courage to take the first steps.
This is something you have to own. If you find the right solution it will look so good that no one will be anything but happy for you. In many cases you won’t even have to tell anyone, however if you truly embrace it you will be so much happier. Trust me. Wearing hair is very much accepted and part of normal society now.